I am having a hard time.
Spots was sick for a while (maybe even since I got her, she had a lot of weird behaviours that I've seeked help with) and some may have heard and she slowly passed away in September. It has been 2ish months and I still cry a lot about her passing. I never expected her to pass so it was hard after all the pointless vet visits that did not lead to any results. I had her cremated so she's still techically with me. But now I have two other babies and as much as I love them, I don't think I can ever love them as much as I love Spots. I just kick myself a lot because I will never know what caused her death and if it could have been avoided. I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want to let it go but I just can't
I don't really know what I want out of this forum...many any suggestions or comfort? gah.
Spots was sick for a while (maybe even since I got her, she had a lot of weird behaviours that I've seeked help with) and some may have heard and she slowly passed away in September. It has been 2ish months and I still cry a lot about her passing. I never expected her to pass so it was hard after all the pointless vet visits that did not lead to any results. I had her cremated so she's still techically with me. But now I have two other babies and as much as I love them, I don't think I can ever love them as much as I love Spots. I just kick myself a lot because I will never know what caused her death and if it could have been avoided. I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want to let it go but I just can't
I don't really know what I want out of this forum...many any suggestions or comfort? gah.